As an international speaker, entrepreneur, and mother of three, I know “busy.” But I also know the Law of Attraction, so here are a few powerful tips for finding balance when you feel like you are being pulled in a hundred different directions.

Balance is a choice. It begins with your thought. You have the ability to talk yourself in and out of balance. It starts with the most frequently asked question, “How are you?” 

Most people ask this question out of habit. It has become the automatic salutation of the western world. The fact is, rarely does anyone listen long enough to hear your response. But know for sure that the Universe, on the other hand, is always listening. And how you respond can completely change your day!

If you respond with “I’m so busy; it’s insane!” the Universe takes this as truth and gives you more reasons to feel overwhelmed. The Universe can’t take a joke. It takes you at your word! Respond instead with this: “I am blissfully productive” or “I am working on finding balance today.” Feel the peace as you say the words. Already, the Universe starts to work toward providing you with an experience of balance, joy, and harmony. 

Believe me, it is that easy. Your thoughts and words are so powerful, and they are “paving the way.” Your thoughts become your INTENTIONS, and your intentions create your reality. The great thing is this ~ you can choose your thoughts!

People spend more time choosing what they are going to wear in the morning than they do choosing how they will connect with people, how they will feel, or what they will accomplish.  Have you asked for balance lately? Have you chosen balance?

If you really want balance in your life, you need to ask for it! Wake up in the morning, and start the day with these thought demands, which I call Pre-Paves: “Today I find balance. I choose peace and harmony in all of my activities. I have plenty of time today to accomplish everything I desire. I feel peaceful. I love my life.” Starting the day off like this will make a significant change in the experiences you attract to yourself. Pre-paving lines up the energy to create what you want. It works like mathematics; it is energy!

Here is one last tip: Once a day or whenever you feel a little out of balance, take a quick time-out in Nature. Nature is in perfect balance, so when you immerse yourself in it, your whole outlook on life changes. Observe the tree. It lives for hundreds of years withstanding storms and insects, without making a sound. Nature grows and survives in perfect balance. When we spend even a few moments in that environment, our own energy finds its natural equilibrium. Even one brief walk down a tree-covered lane or by an ocean or riverbank can change the course of your life.

Life is a journey, not a destination, and your thoughts are at the wheel. You have everything you need to find balance in your life. There is nothing outside of you that you need to acquire. The power lies right within the realm of your own mind. Choose thoughts and words that will take you down the road of Peace and Balance.

Elisabeth Fayt is an international speaker, owner of RnR Wellness, and bestselling author of the new book Paving it Forward. One of the featured speakers in the movie The Opus, Elisabeth is both a prominent abundance expert and a successful business woman. Find out more about Elisabeth at www.ElisabethFayt.com or email her at This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it